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I've noticed I'm not the same person online as offline. I've also noticed it's not because of anonymity, but rather because I'm writing instead of speaking. Somehow this boosts my confidence majorly and, as a result, I'm a lot more open and talkative while online.
I have the exact same...thing.
I think a lot of it, at least for me, is that no-one expects you to respond quickly, so you can take your time with your words to say what you really want to say.
That's my problem too. I have some sort of blockage sometimes between the words i want to say and actually saying them. When I write or type, things just flow. Its easier. I'm kind of an automatic writer. Most everything I say (in text) seems to appear before I realize what I've even written. Its almost as if I was made to communicate with my subconscious and not words...so conversational skills are not really second nature to me. There's a lot more work involved in actually speaking.
Not that I won't go out and at least TRY talk to just about anyone in real life, but it takes the stress level wayyy down to do this instead.