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tomatobob

2016-03-15 12:58:16 am

One shall stand, one shall ball.

Quote from arkarian:

batman is weird ... i love batman, but really only in the dcau

Outside those cartoons Batman seems like an extended attempt at making the least likable person imaginable.

arkarian

2016-03-15 01:41:01 am

red chamber dream

yeah i think that's spot on

arkarian

2016-03-15 01:41:53 am

red chamber dream

i guess he was fine in arkham asylum too, but he was barely a character in that game

it wasn't a bad thing though

Turtle

2016-03-15 12:41:20 pm

I like turtles.

Also, AA's Batman was more a successor to DCAU Bats than most others, even within that same series.

Poision Envy

2016-03-15 08:09:02 pm

Club 27 Goals

So I know how you guys looooove hearing about my personal life, so here goes

So like a month ago that girl and I broke up because she wanted a more open relationship and to fulfill her "needs" and fantasies, whereas I wanted something singular and dedicated etc etc. It sucked but oh well, it was for the best, good learning experience. She started dating someone pretty much immediately and I moved on.

some time has passed and she wants to make it work with me again, and didn't want to be in that whole open thing anymore. She apparently had a realization or something that the other life wasn't something she wanted etc etc, so she wants to make it work and I was like, okay you know maybe that'd be fine.

However, the guy that she was dating during this time is quite upset that she decided to come back to me and gave me a warning about "who she really is" and "the things she says behind your back". He had logs and logs of stuff she said, how she hated things I did, how she felt like I was manipulating her, how I'm an asshole and she regrets ever doing things with me or sleeping with me, how I"m trying to control her life, and about how she always wanted to cheat on me when we were together and how she regrets not cheating on me and how she wanted to, all the times she said she loved him even when we were dating. Just tons of shit like that.

So I ask her about it and she's like, no, none of that ever happened he's completely making all of that up and I never once said any of that. But seeing what she said is definitely in her "Style" and tone, not something that some fuckboi who only knew her for a month could mimick. what also makes me inclined to believe he didn't just make it up was the fact that he also included bit of her saying things recently about how I'm the better man than he is. He's a dumbass so he wouldn't have just included that. She did admit to saying some of the stuff in the end though.

So now I just don't know what to do. Like, if she admitted she said those things but that was in the past and she wants to move on then sure, but still. It just sucks because everything else was honestly perfect between us. So I pretty much have to decide whether or not I want to potentially waste more time of my life, more heartache, or if it'll be worth it. Just feel free to kill me whenever you guys feel like.

So I know how you guys looooove hearing about my personal life, so here goes

So like a month ago that girl and I broke up because she wanted a more open relationship and to fulfill her "needs" and fantasies, whereas I wanted something singular and dedicated etc etc. It sucked but oh well, it was for the best, good learning experience. She started dating someone pretty much immediately and I moved on.

some time has passed and she wants to make it work with me again, and didn't want to be in that whole open thing anymore. She apparently had a realization or something that the other life wasn't something she wanted etc etc, so she wants to make it work and I was like, okay you know maybe that'd be fine.

However, the guy that she was dating during this time is quite upset that she decided to come back to me and gave me a warning about "who she really is" and "the things she says behind your back". He had logs and logs of stuff she said, how she hated things I did, how she felt like I was manipulating her, how I'm an asshole and she regrets ever doing things with me or sleeping with me, how I"m trying to control her life, and about how she always wanted to cheat on me when we were together and how she regrets not cheating on me and how she wanted to, all the times she said she loved him even when we were dating. Just tons of shit like that.

So I ask her about it and she's like, no, none of that ever happened he's completely making all of that up and I never once said any of that. But seeing what she said is definitely in her "Style" and tone, not something that some fuckboi who only knew her for a month could mimick. what also makes me inclined to believe he didn't just make it up was the fact that he also included bit of her saying things recently about how I'm the better man than he is. He's a dumbass so he wouldn't have just included that. She did admit to saying some of the stuff in the end though.

So now I just don't know what to do. Like, if she admitted she said those things but that was in the past and she wants to move on then sure, but still. It just sucks because everything else was honestly perfect between us. So I pretty much have to decide whether or not I want to potentially waste more time of my life, more heartache, or if it'll be worth it. Just feel free to kill me whenever you guys feel like.

Poision Envy

2016-03-15 08:10:52 pm

Club 27 Goals

tl;dr just fuck my shit up now fam.

arkarian

2016-03-15 08:42:52 pm

red chamber dream

you probably don't want to keep hearing this as you haven't heeded it, but my advice is the same as last time. stop talking to her or any of her friends. ever.

arkarian

2016-03-15 08:43:18 pm

red chamber dream

plenty of fish in the sea as they say

Poision Envy

2016-03-15 08:44:11 pm

Club 27 Goals

this was a different chick than last time when you said it, I actually haven't talked to that previous one since haha

arkarian

2016-03-15 08:44:22 pm

red chamber dream

ah ok, i have the same advice for this one then

Poision Envy

2016-03-15 08:44:26 pm

Club 27 Goals

but yeah seems like another case where I just need to cut all connections and try again

arkarian

2016-03-15 08:44:47 pm

red chamber dream

when you break up with someone, don't talk to them again

just don't, it never ends up being something positive or valuable in your life

arkarian

2016-03-15 08:45:04 pm

red chamber dream

the whole we can still be friends thing is total bullshit

Poision Envy

2016-03-15 08:48:27 pm

Club 27 Goals

oh yeah no, fuck that noise. The other girl I dated "stayed friends" with her exs and it was nooooothing but trouble constantly.

On the other hand, at least I didn't move in with her like we wanted to.

arkarian

2016-03-15 08:59:30 pm

red chamber dream

in my experience it only works when you move away and only occasionally see your ex, and fuck

Poision Envy

2016-03-15 09:05:16 pm

Club 27 Goals

there's only three things I'm addicted to
weed, whiskey, sometimes ex
but only when I'm drunk and call her up to have sex

tomatobob

2016-03-15 09:05:21 pm

One shall stand, one shall ball.

Dude there isn't even a decision to make here, you obviously don't trust this person who has given you plenty of reason.

Poision Envy

2016-03-15 09:10:20 pm

Club 27 Goals

yeah, I mean, I guess so. I guess it just sucks cause everything else mashed up really well. Hobbies, wanting to spend time, the way we talked, hung out, our friends, family, all that shit. I didn't have any trust issues in her and she trusted me fully too, so hearing and seeing all of this is just bizarre. Like there was this whole other person inside this person. I'd blame it on her stress, or maybe drugs or something, but still, it's just weird. I guess I just wanted to get my thoughts written out mostly to vent.

Tbh I'm not even sad about it, mostly just confused and a bit disappointed.

arkarian

2016-03-15 09:11:12 pm

red chamber dream

there are 4764123 people in the world who also fit those characteristics. she is not special. don't worry

arkarian

2016-03-15 09:11:46 pm

red chamber dream

but yeah this is why relationships suck, you spend all this time building them up and then they go to shit and you feel like you wasted your time

that's just life