I've been harrassed by women before and I fucking hate it
lol it's amazing, people always reach for "Ohhhh yeah it's must be sooooo terrible to have people say the want to bone you all the time ." Like somehow people deciding they couldn't be bothering you means it shouldn't bother you.
I was harrassed by a guy. This dude I worked with was trying to sort out if he was gay or not and he decided I was the one he wanted to find out with. He didn't really seem to process it when I told him I wasn't into that. It wasn't a fun experience. Thankfully he left pretty soon after that.
but yeah I've been chased by plenty of women I've had no interest in at all and it's fucking unpleasant enough without the possible threat of impending violence that women have to confront on top of that
This is going to sound kind of bad but I think I'd be more okay with being single now than I was in the months before I got in a relationship.
Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't be as satisfied with my life as I am now. But before I was arguably in a worse place than I realized. Being out of college and not having dating be a constant and implicitly mandatory element of one's surroundings helps with perspective.
also sort of made me understand how it happened, I guess mainly the fact that rigging the tests in various ways has apparently been going on for decades and the idea that the tests are viewed by the engineers as an entirely artificial thing because nobody actually drives that way in real life, so it just sort of boiled down to an optimisation problem divorced from the realities of real world situations