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Hey guys, I've got a bit of a question. So I've been friends with this chick for a long time, very casual friendship, but lately we've talked more and more and she's made it kinda clear she's into me, and we're both single at the same time, and we talk and talk. She's a great gal, but has a very broken and rough past. Abuse from ex's and family and friends, etc etc. She's been in and out of therapy a lot over her life, on medication, int he hospital for it, etc etc. None of this I knew about until very recently, all the time I've been spending with her have been laughs and fun times and feeling good. She likes me a lot because I'm a huge positive influence in her life and I don't cause drama for her. And admittedly, I like her a lot too.
The thing is though, she's very much not mentally stable. With borderline personality disorder, going between crying a lot and laughing a lot and wanting to kill herself etc etc.
It's like... I'm not sure if I can handle all that... I mean, she might change, but what's also nice is since I'm such a positive influence for her she doesn't really feel that way around me. She's a total sweetheart and lots of laughs around me. I'm just afraid that after I get really attached, after a couple months or something she might get very unstable again, and all that stress and everything would be terrible.
The thing is though, she's very much not mentally stable. With borderline personality disorder, going between crying a lot and laughing a lot and wanting to kill herself etc etc.
It's like... I'm not sure if I can handle all that... I mean, she might change, but what's also nice is since I'm such a positive influence for her she doesn't really feel that way around me. She's a total sweetheart and lots of laughs around me. I'm just afraid that after I get really attached, after a couple months or something she might get very unstable again, and all that stress and everything would be terrible.