yeah, the way I got over my ex was it happened about a week before a convention, so I had a blast with friends for like a week and a half nonstop, and things got easier after that. Then I met the now-ex a few days after that. So I haven't really had to deal with this before.
psychologically speaking it's always the correct course of action even in a situation where you don't know whether it's over, you just look like a spineless puppet otherwise, it's the only way you can take back control of the situation
I still have a ton of questions about what happened with clare and her friends and all that bullshit that happened on facebook. still don't know what it all actually meant or what the various actors involved were trying to achieve, but I didn't bother pursuing the answers because the endgame is the same, I wasn't going to get what I wanted
leaving me 2 months to actually get this shit sorted out ... so much for getting it done early to minimise the stress involved, god I'm glad I wrote to them back in June and didn't leave it until now, I'd be shafted
Best of luck man, hope it's smoother from here on.
I woke up at 5am completely randomly and had to sprit to the bathroom and threw up. Totally random, I felt fine after that and nothing else weird happened. No idea where it came from.