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arkarian

2015-05-29 09:21:58 pm

red chamber dream

but they would probably say the same about men

Poision Envy

DJGrenola

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DJGrenola: 2017-12-25 07:15:09 pm

2015-05-29 09:22:33 pm

Club 27 Goals

Quote from DJGrenola:

I grew up in an entirely female domestic environment and there's no doubt in my mind it's fucked me up quite badly

I was actually the same, grew up with my mother and grandmother, and primairly female cousins.

Poision Envy

2015-05-29 09:22:58 pm

Club 27 Goals

it just turned me into a pussified bitch though with too many emotions and not knowing how to express them properly according to my male mind set

Poision Envy

2015-05-29 09:23:08 pm

Club 27 Goals

or maybe I was just born that way, who knows

DJGrenola

2015-05-29 09:23:11 pm

i think my mother was much more concerned about all the ways I could potentially embarrass her than she was about doing what was right for me, and that wasn't her fault or anything but looking back it's how it was

arkarian

2015-05-29 09:23:13 pm

red chamber dream

yeah i suppose most of my friends were girls growing up, and i've never talked to my dad about anything important in my entire life

DJGrenola

2015-05-29 09:23:45 pm

i got no encouragement, it was all don't do this, don't do that

arkarian

2015-05-29 09:23:53 pm

red chamber dream

ah ok i see

arkarian

2015-05-29 09:24:06 pm

red chamber dream

the same was largely true for me, but mostly because of the whole religion thing

Poision Envy

2015-05-29 09:24:41 pm

Club 27 Goals

I think the most life-changing conversation my dad and I ever had was when I was 16, and he explained to me when to hit the stink and when not to. And if she's complaining too much about not going hard enough you stick your thumb in to shut her up.

he's a pretty funny guy though, I love going out with him to dinner and stuff, he just wasn't there to raise me, and I think I'm pretty okay now.

Poision Envy

2015-05-29 09:25:27 pm

Club 27 Goals

I think my problem was my mom just let me do whatever. The only time she told me not to do something was if it was severe consequence that wasn't just "it's better for them to learn the hard way". Like getting electrocuted or kidnapped.

arkarian

2015-05-29 09:25:29 pm

red chamber dream

rotfl yeah i can't imagine my dad saying anything remotely close to that

that guy is dumb as rocks and has no understanding of other people though

DJGrenola

2015-05-29 09:27:03 pm

my mother never got me really, I don't think she ever understood men very well at all

Poision Envy

2015-05-29 09:27:36 pm

Club 27 Goals

ah damn, looks like AWS does support the pSQL thing I need, but they charge something weird by the hour, and according to the dev of that software it'll rack up the bill pretty high pretty fast.

He did give me some links to other hosts though, should only come out to about 10 or $20/month for something stable.

arkarian

2015-05-29 09:29:11 pm

red chamber dream

i don't tell my mom a lot of stuff because i think she would understand me too well heh

arkarian

2015-05-29 09:30:10 pm

red chamber dream

it's my fault i guess, i just can't stand getting into anything personal with my parents

arkarian

2015-05-29 09:30:37 pm

red chamber dream

well my mom, talking to my dad about anything substantial is completely out of the question

DJGrenola

2015-05-29 09:30:38 pm

that's not uncommon

arkarian

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arkarian: 2015-05-29 09:31:19 pm

2015-05-29 09:31:08 pm

red chamber dream

yeah you're probably right, i figure most young people go through this then eventually they care way more

or something, i dunno ... certainly hasn't happened yet

DJGrenola

2015-05-29 09:31:36 pm

grr I want to go to bed because my back is killing me but this damn kernel is still compiling

arkarian

2015-05-29 09:31:57 pm

red chamber dream

it will compile while you sleep!

DJGrenola

2015-05-29 09:32:34 pm

yeah I will give up if it doesn't get a move on lol

DJGrenola

2015-05-29 09:33:30 pm

the linux kernel is a fucking leviathan now, back in the days of 2.4 you could compile it in 10 minutes, you can't do that now unless you have ... a lot more cores than I have available

arkarian

2015-05-29 09:33:39 pm

red chamber dream

haha

arkarian

2015-05-29 09:33:53 pm

red chamber dream

damn users wanting features