social topic

2012-02-22 09:19:26 pm

Quote from arkarian:

i mean i am young and selfish right? and i know that, which means i know i don't want a relationship

isn't that better than pretending it's not true and being a total bastard to some poor girl?

I can commend being honest with yourself, but to say that you're so concerned with your own needs that having an emotional attachment to someone is that much of a burden is a bit much.

arkarian

2012-02-22 09:19:48 pm

red chamber dream

why?

tomatobob

2012-02-22 09:21:14 pm

One shall stand, one shall ball.

Quote from arkarian:

isn't that better than pretending it's not true and being a total bastard to some poor girl?

It means you aren't nearly selfish enough and disgrace selfish people everywhere by saying you are!

Idkbutlike2

2012-02-22 09:26:05 pm

Quote from arkarian:

why?

Well, what if somewhere down the line (maybe even years from now) you get tired of living alone and going from place to place and actually want to settle down. It's gonna be a lot harder to do if you're not used to relationships.

But who knows? Maybe you want to be that old hermit who ignores everyone and spends his days tending to his videogames and books 40 years from now.

arkarian

2012-02-22 09:27:07 pm

red chamber dream

a lifetime is a long time man

plenty of time to do anything i want to do

Idkbutlike2

2012-02-22 09:28:34 pm

Uh-huh, that's what they all say at first.

tomatobob

2012-02-22 09:29:53 pm

One shall stand, one shall ball.

I must have misses the part where he said he was going to go hide up in the mountains never interacting with another human being for years on end.

arkarian

2012-02-22 09:30:49 pm

red chamber dream

yeah i mean i want to live in different places and explore different things and meet all kinds of people but yeah living up in the mountains alone is pretty much the same thing