I read it as "Catostrophe" (Rhymes with apostrophe)
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vuvuzela's enigmatic journey of love, joy and tears, of course.
I'm not seeing a football button on youtube DISAPPOINTMENT'S
It's probably going to be like when youtube adds anything new; the videos uploaded that day have it, but it takes awhile for them to apply it to videos already uploaded.
So the recent BF that came and went is now back. We'll see how long it lasts this time. He was pretty shitty to me right at the end, but he says he's really sorry. The problem is that he's too damn cute for me to say NO to. He knows I'm pissed off at him, but I still agreed to have dinner with him on Friday. Will I stand my ground and let him know that his recent dickish behavior isn't gonna be tolerated, or will I totally submit to those eyes? He has these blue-green eyes with thick dark eyelashes, totally PHINE! - I'm nearly powerless against them!
Woah - it's not every day that you see a male totally defect to the other side like that. When women reclaim the planet, your assistance will not be forgotten.
I don't enjoy being treated like shit, but I have to admit my faults here. He is quite full of himself and not attractive on the inside. I seem to be compromising my principles in this regard due to the physical attraction. It's a stupid thing to do.
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did she go into detail on here? because I have no idea how bad "recent dickish behavior" is supposed to be kinda sounds like he had a bad day
He basically looked me in the eye and lied to me about going out of town. I got pissed when i found out and he wasn't exactly apologetic, telling me to basically get over it.
You're right, I have almost no hope that this is going to go anywhere that's worth going to. It's only now after actually being around each other for a while that I'm forced to admit that he's an asshole. It's just hard to accept because he's just too phine. And with him coming back and being all suddenly apologetic - ha ! It's nothing more than the manipulations of a cold and calculating narcissist. I have something that he wants, pure and simple. I'm not talking about anything nasty, I'm talking about psychological. His ego has an orgasm every time I express any kind of approval or lust towards him, be it in the form of flirts, compliments, or even submission to dickish behavior. I can see right through this sexy fucker. I'm not done with him though. I should really figure out a way to totally fuck his world up while I have the chance to.
I should really figure out a way to totally fuck his world up while I have the chance to.
That might actually prove even more of a confirmation to him, that he has a hold over you. I would suggest - drop him completely and never look back. Make him feel very, very insignificant. That would be the best triumph over someone with a character such as you're describing.
Agreed. Acting like you're not fussed whether he wants to be friends or not is probably your best option. Trying to find a way to hurt him back (or whatever) can surely only serve to be destructive?
Never been in a relationship myself, but yeah, this doesn't sound like the kind of person I'd want to be with if roles were reversed. (IE if I had a girlfriend who acted this way) Good to see I'm not the only one who feels that way around here though.
But I'd also agree that the less confrontational path is the way to go. People can do some pretty crazy things (men and women alike) if their emotions are pushed too far, whether they realize it or not. I'd avoid pushing your luck with a guy like that.