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Chooser of the Slain
Either way, I don't get the "I don't believe you" thing. This necessity to doubt everything surround you for no apparent reason is weird, but it's alright. I don't need to convince anyone just to "fit", because apparently I can't as you guys do have a circle already and I can't get in for that reason.
It's weird that you think that I doubt everything around me, when I've only expressed doubt about one thing. It's also strange that you say I have no reason when I haven't even been asked what my reasons are. I did simply say that it didn't feel right to me, but chose not to go into the actual reasons why, but that doesn't mean that the reasons don't exist and/or that I'm not willing to list them.
If you ever do figure out how to get into the 'circle' then let me know how you did it, as I still haven't really been able to get into it either. (does it even exist?)
edit: Sorry about doubting your pic. If it were me then it would piss me off. I'm not gonna lie though, and it's too late to take it back.
If you ever do figure out how to get into the 'circle' then let me know how you did it, as I still haven't really been able to get into it either. (does it even exist?)
edit: Sorry about doubting your pic. If it were me then it would piss me off. I'm not gonna lie though, and it's too late to take it back.
Chooser of the Slain
I am referring to the actual social treatment you guys have between yourselves.
It's noticeable that I tried to be here and there sharing my ideas and my stuff to actually be liked, it's human to actually do that.
I am also exercising my right to be me, by posting my pic I am being myself, but if I have to "hide" behind the typical animu pic to avoid "being doubted" then I should have been told earlier.
It's noticeable that I tried to be here and there sharing my ideas and my stuff to actually be liked, it's human to actually do that.
I am also exercising my right to be me, by posting my pic I am being myself, but if I have to "hide" behind the typical animu pic to avoid "being doubted" then I should have been told earlier.
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I am referring to the actual social treatment you guys have between yourselves.
Idk about the others, but I don't see a new person and think, "Oh they're new, they aren't very important, I'll just ignore their posts and thoughts".
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It's noticeable that I tried to be here and there sharing my ideas and my stuff to actually be liked, it's human to actually do that.
I don't think anyone's said anything about DISliking you, so I'm not sure where you got that idea.
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I am also exercising my right to be me, by posting my pic I am being myself, but if I have to "hide" behind the typical animu pic to avoid "being doubted" then I should have been told earlier.
Opium was just skeptical that you are actually the person in your avatar. The internet makes it easy to pretend to be whatever you want, so if you upload lots of pictures of a pretty girl as your avatar, people will be skeptical if it's really you. There's really no harm in posting a picture of yourself proving you are who you claim to be, and saying things like "You guys should believe me because I said so" only makes people believe you less.
But I guess whatever floats your boat.
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It's noticeable that I tried to be here and there sharing my ideas and my stuff to actually be liked, it's human to actually do that.
Many people here have known each other for years now, so you can't just jump in here and expect to be considered part of the community by everybody from day 1 on.
Basically, just give it time and try to enjoy your stay regardless. Like poision said, it's not like people would dislike or ignore you.
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(does it even exist?)
lol, no. Obviously there are some people here and there that are good friends and have their talks outside of this forum, but you have these in pretty much every community.
Chooser of the Slain
Well, I actually thought your first quotation: "oh they're new, they aren't very important, I'll just ignore their posts and thoughts".
I actually felt like that, like being completely pushed aside. I automatically take that as "they did not take interest, so they must dislike me somehow".
I also accept Opium's opinion, not that I have not received that treatment before.
Not ranting, no big deal.
It's just... weird, I don't usually try to fit "nicely", because I am "known" to actually being fierce and whatnot.
I actually felt like that, like being completely pushed aside. I automatically take that as "they did not take interest, so they must dislike me somehow".
I also accept Opium's opinion, not that I have not received that treatment before.
Not ranting, no big deal.
It's just... weird, I don't usually try to fit "nicely", because I am "known" to actually being fierce and whatnot.
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Yeah when I make a post in the social topic and the other people keep talking about some lame 90's band its like "Aw they're ignoring me, why do they hate me", but then I just kinda accept that nobody was genuinely interested in THAT post. I know sometimes I'll be talking to someone in the social topic about a certain subject, and someone will come along and post something compeltely different, and I kinda skip over their post and continue the conversation I was having with the other person.
Cause if you think of it like a real life conversation, if three people are talking about, say, bicycles, and which color bicycle is their favorite, etc, and then you come in and say something about how your dog attacked someone, the three people will probably continue their conversation. Idk, I guess you kinda just have to know when the right time to start a new subject is.
But then there's also times when everyone is talking about bikes, and you post saying, "My favorite color bike is green!". There's not really a response to that. People will probably acknowledge the post, but since there isn't a reply other than "Cool" or something along those lines, it might seem like you're being ignored. If it was real life, then you can see when people acknowledge you speaking by things like ye contact, or people will nod their head. But those kind of things don't transfer over the internet very well.
So, yeah, feel free to stick around.
Cause if you think of it like a real life conversation, if three people are talking about, say, bicycles, and which color bicycle is their favorite, etc, and then you come in and say something about how your dog attacked someone, the three people will probably continue their conversation. Idk, I guess you kinda just have to know when the right time to start a new subject is.
But then there's also times when everyone is talking about bikes, and you post saying, "My favorite color bike is green!". There's not really a response to that. People will probably acknowledge the post, but since there isn't a reply other than "Cool" or something along those lines, it might seem like you're being ignored. If it was real life, then you can see when people acknowledge you speaking by things like ye contact, or people will nod their head. But those kind of things don't transfer over the internet very well.
So, yeah, feel free to stick around.
Chooser of the Slain
I usually try to ride the line of the posts, to express my opinion on the current topic, in which I am usually ignored (at least in this forum).
And also, if my physical appearance will create problems and stuff, then I'll keep my pictures away from here and stick to the typical drawings and stuff to serve as my "representation". Yay, less self-esteem.
And also, if my physical appearance will create problems and stuff, then I'll keep my pictures away from here and stick to the typical drawings and stuff to serve as my "representation". Yay, less self-esteem.
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yeah you can't expect people on message boards to give a damn about every post you make. this escpecially goes for the social topics that are all about people posting random stuff and then getting back at each other or not.
best way to deal with people ignoring your posts is not giving a damn. you'll learn it happens all the time
yeah you can't expect people on message boards to give a damn about every post you make. this escpecially goes for the social topics that are all about people posting random stuff and then getting back at each other or not.
best way to deal with people ignoring your posts is not giving a damn. you'll learn it happens all the time
Chooser of the Slain
Honestly, hurts my feelings, yes.
I am taking a therapy to begin to accept myself more openly, that meant to share my appearance on the internet and see the reactions, obviously, as my psychologist said, I wasn't to expect only positive reactions but still, I am human and I do feel things and react to words.
I understand what you are saying, ryu, but don't expect everybody to be like you are.
To cite an example, if you don't give a damn about puppies being hurled into a river, it's you, but don't expect people to give a damn about it.
I cannot just "give a damn" like you do because... well, obviously I am not you and my train of thought is not in the same channel.
That also applies with me and you people, I can't certainly start thinking I'll just "tune in" with my ideas and yours, so have it your way and let's keep the party easy.
As a footnote, I do appreciate the honesty though, I greatly appreciate it and I'll try to behave more... politically correct.
I am taking a therapy to begin to accept myself more openly, that meant to share my appearance on the internet and see the reactions, obviously, as my psychologist said, I wasn't to expect only positive reactions but still, I am human and I do feel things and react to words.
I understand what you are saying, ryu, but don't expect everybody to be like you are.
To cite an example, if you don't give a damn about puppies being hurled into a river, it's you, but don't expect people to give a damn about it.
I cannot just "give a damn" like you do because... well, obviously I am not you and my train of thought is not in the same channel.
That also applies with me and you people, I can't certainly start thinking I'll just "tune in" with my ideas and yours, so have it your way and let's keep the party easy.
As a footnote, I do appreciate the honesty though, I greatly appreciate it and I'll try to behave more... politically correct.
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Quote from DynaDASH:
Honestly, hurts my feelings, yes.
Ah but what I'm trying to say is, there's really no need for it to hurt your feelings. People not believing it's you doesn't mean they think the pictures are bad or ugly or whatever, in fact it usually means the opposite; they don't believe it's you because the person is pretty or really good looking.
Like if I had some fat guy as my avatar, and I was like "That's me" people would be like "Yeah that's probably true". But if I had some kind of super model as my avatar, and I was like "That's people" people would be like "Yeah right, why would someone pretty like that be here?".
Anyhow, I think I've explained it as much as I could.